Reacting or Responding

The terms react and respond have very similar definitions. But looking carefully we can see that a reaction is more like a knee jerk. For instance if one burns their hand on a hot stove the reaction is immediate. Without thought.  Whereas as response is slower, like the time it takes to relieve the burn.

Conversations can be like that too. Someone says something we don't agree with and we react by blurting out our own argument. But if we will pause just for a moment and allow the Holy Spirit to help us, we will find that patience and gentleness can stop the anger and the argument. It may not bring immediate resolution but it will help bring a peaceful one.


Proverbs 29:20 There is more hope for a fool than for someone who speaks without thinking.
Proverbs 15:1 A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare.


Merrriam -Webster Student Dictionary definitions
React:
1. to act or behave in response (as to stimulation or influence)
2. to oppose a force or influence --usually used with against
3. to go through or cause to go through a chemical reaction.
Respond:

1. to say something in return; make or form an answer

2. a.) to react in response; (note how the animal's pupil responds to light)

2.b.) to have a favorable reaction, (the patient is responding to treatment)