Galatians 5:16 I say then; Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.
When we go to the grocery store often times the very first department we see is the produce department. Think about all of the colors and fragrances. I love to smell fresh strawberries and apples! So many different colors and fragrances.
We choose fruits and vegetables that are ripe and healthy. They are good. But what if there is rotten fruit or unripe melon? We have to make a choice. It's pretty obvious that we would choose the good and not the bad.
On a spiritual level we also have choices and this is why we really need to be aware of our own thoughts. We have many opportunities every day to either be irritated or forgiving. We have the choice to yell at people or overlook their mistakes. Life is full of choices and whether or not we realize it we make them all the time. The difference in walking in the Spirit is that we cooperate with the Holy Spirit. It starts with baby steps. We learn to listen to that inner voice that may say something like, "that wasn't kind." or "that was selfish". It could be any number of things but the important thing to remember is to learn to cooperate with the Holy Spirit.
Always remember though that we will mess up. When we mess up, we fess up, we get up and walk on. We are like little children. Jesus doesn't beat us up. He helps us up. Satan on the other hand wants to keep you down. (1 John 1:9)
Its important to realize too that if we aren't willing to listen to correction we aren't going to be able to receive direction. Feelings are not direction. The point is that when we get in tune with the correction of the Lord we can then be confident in the direction He is leading.
Ps. 23:1 The Lord is my shepherd. He is good and kind and loving and lovely. He is the bread of life, living water. His word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path.
If Jesus is guiding our thoughts they will always bring us to the paths of righteousness. This not necessarily the righteousness that He gives us but more like the righteousness of thinking and doing the right things. Jesus will always lead us to think right and do right. All actions begin with thoughts. Pay attention to where your thoughts are taking you and also what is feeding those thoughts.
Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy- meditate on these things.
Jesus said in John 14:1 Let not your heart be troubled, you believe in God, believe also in Me.
This tells me that He gives me the opportunity to choose whether or not to be troubled. Don't be discouraged this takes practice.
Life isn't always peaceful, joyful or happy. So don't look for happiness in your circumstances. Look to Jesus. He will honor silent prayers. Even the very simplest of prayers like Peter as he walked on the water. He was doing ok until he took his eyes off of Jesus and onto the wind and the waves. Then he said Lord, help! Immediately Jesus did two things. He corrected and He helped, but He didn't condemn.
A couple other things to consider is that in John 10:27 My sheep hear My voice and I know them and they follow me. One of the hallmarks of a child of God is that we are comforted and corrected by His word. We must have a willing heart to be corrected by the Word.
Psalm 23:4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
He is God and we are not. He knows what's best and loving correction is the hallmark of good parenting. Proverbs 3:12 For whom the Lord loves He corrects, just as a father the son in whom he delights.
Finally... take comfort when you are corrected by the shepherd's rod. It is because you are hearing the heart of the Father's love for you!